As the leaves change and the air turns crisp, fall is often seen as a season of transformation — not just for nature, but for ourselves too. It's a great time to reflect, reset, and work toward becoming a better version of who we were in the past months.
But growth isn’t just about adding new habits to our lives; sometimes, the most impactful changes come from letting go. Saying goodbye to the things that hold us back is a powerful way to create space for a better, healthier mindset.
Today, we’re going to uncover 7 such habits that could be preventing you from becoming the person you want to be. Shedding these habits this fall could be the change you need to start fresh, refocused, and ready for what lies ahead.
Let’s jump in and explore what we need to leave behind to make way for a better, more fulfilled self.
We’ve all been there — stuck in a loop of overanalyzing every little choice, no matter how small.
While it’s normal to want to make the “right” decision, getting caught up in endless thinking can leave you paralyzed and unable to move forward. The more time you spend questioning your decisions, the less energy you have to actually make them happen.
Letting go of this habit means learning to trust yourself more. It’s about recognizing that perfection doesn’t exist and that sometimes, a “good enough” decision is exactly what you need to make progress.
As you head into fall, focus on making choices with intention and confidence. You'll be amazed at how freeing it can feel to let go of that mental chatter and just do.
It’s time to stop overthinking and start living.
“Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life” -Steve Jobs
In a world full of social media, family expectations, and societal norms, it’s easy to get caught up in living a life that’s not really yours. Whether it’s pursuing a career path because it’s what others expect of you or making lifestyle choices to fit in, letting other people’s opinions shape your life can keep you from truly being yourself.
This fall, make a commitment to break away from the habit of people-pleasing and conformity.
Start asking yourself: What do you really want? What values, dreams, and passions do you have that might have been overshadowed by external pressures?
Remember, you only have one life to live, so spend it chasing your own vision — not someone else’s.
It’s time to embrace authenticity and let go of the pressure to live for others. You owe it to yourself to live life on your terms.
It’s easy to fall into the habit of saying "yes" to every request, invitation, or task that comes your way — after all, we don’t want to disappoint anyone, right?
But constantly agreeing to things, even when they don’t serve your goals or well-being, can quickly lead to overwhelm, burnout, and resentment.
Learning to say “no” is a skill, and it’s one of the most empowering habits you can develop. It’s not about rejecting people; it’s about protecting your time, energy, and priorities. This fall, start assessing each request with one simple question: “Does this align with my goals and values?” If the answer is no, politely decline.
Saying “no” more often means saying “yes” to what truly matters — the things that bring you joy, fulfillment, and growth.
When was the last time you truly took a moment for yourself — just to relax, recharge, or do something you genuinely love?
If you can’t remember, it’s time for a change.
Self-care is not selfish; it’s essential. And yet, it’s one of the first things many of us sacrifice when life gets busy or stressful.
As noted by experts like those at Choosing Therapy the benefits of regular self-care include better self-esteem, improved productivity, and happier relationships. Sounds good, right?
This fall, start carving out time for small acts of self-care — whether it’s a morning walk, journaling, reading a book, or simply enjoying a cup of tea without distractions.
By taking care of yourself, you’re not only improving your own well-being but also showing up better for the people and responsibilities in your life.
“You can please some of the people some of the time, but you can’t please all of the people all of the time.” This famous saying, often attributed to poet John Lydgate, serves as a powerful reminder that trying to make everyone happy is an impossible task.
Yet, many of us fall into this trap — bending over backward to meet everyone’s expectations, only to end up feeling drained, unappreciated, and losing sight of our own needs.
The reality is, not everyone will understand or approve of your choices, and that’s perfectly okay. The sooner you let go of the need for universal approval, the more space you create for self-fulfillment, authenticity, and peace of mind.
Focus on being true to yourself and honoring what matters to you. The right people — those who value you for who you are — will stick around, and you’ll be all the better for it. This fall, make it a goal to prioritize your happiness over others' expectations.
Regret can be a heavy burden to carry, and if you find yourself constantly replaying past mistakes or wishing you could change what’s already done, you’re not alone. But the truth is, holding on to regret only keeps you stuck. It drains your mental energy, and prevents you from moving forward.
This fall, try to view your mistakes differently — not as permanent failures but as valuable learning experiences. What did they teach you? How did they make you grow?
Every stumble has the potential to make you stronger and wiser if you allow yourself to learn and let go.
The past is a place of reference, not residence. Use it to guide you, but don’t let it define you.
We all have dreams and goals we want to achieve, but too often, we find ourselves putting them off — waiting for the “perfect” moment, more time, or the right circumstances.
That perfect moment rarely comes. Procrastinating on the things that matter most keeps you in a cycle of “someday,” while opportunities slip by and your goals remain just out of reach.
This fall, make a commitment to take action, however small, toward the things you truly want. Break down big goals into manageable steps, set clear timelines, and hold yourself accountable.
The season of change is a great time to leave procrastination behind and start building the life you want — one step at a time.
Fall is the perfect time for a fresh start, and the best way to make real change is to let go of the habits that no longer serve you.
From overthinking and trying to please everyone, to overlooking self-care and procrastinating on your goals, identifying and releasing these behaviors can open up space for growth, happiness, and a more fulfilled version of yourself.
Becoming a better person isn’t always about adding more to your plate; it's often about clearing away what’s holding you back.
So, say goodbye to these habits, and hello to a better you.